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Archives for December 2014

New Year, New Focus

12.31.2014 by oul_admin // Leave a Comment

“The indispensable first step to getting things you want out of this life is this:
 decide what you want.” 


Ben Stein

2015 is right around the corner & I’m checking my focus before the new year begins!

The best is yet to come! 

2014 brought some major life changes for me.  I spent a portion of the year in hospitals, lost my mother, planned a large wedding from out of state, got married, moved, started a new job, and bought a house.   After researching New Year’s resolutions and trying to narrow my ever-growing list of goals, I’ve decided to adjust my focus.



These are five areas I’ve decided to focus on this year:

1. Love & serve God.  
“But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and all his righteousness: and all these things shall be added unto you.” Matthew 6:33

I need to dig deeper & strengthen my relationship with God.  The Lord has been speaking to me about His plans for my life, and I need to plug-in deeper to understand what He wants me to do.  I feel led to be fearless starting this year.

I’m going to start the year off by reading Living Courageously by Joyce Meyer.  Her books are usually a quick read, but very informative.  Joyce experienced a lot of suffering in her early years in abuse & neglect.  She learned to change her mindset and focus on God.  Now she helps others do the same.


2. Honor my husband.
“With all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love; endeavoring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.” Ephesians 4:2-3

Married life has been anything but easy.  I love my husband a lot, but that hasn’t made life easier. Since the wedding in July, the hubby and I have been busy.  We’ve had a lot on our plates, and since things are slowing down (hopefully), I think we can make a better effort on focusing on our marriage.  God calls wives to honor their husbands, and husbands to love their wives.   I’m going to ensure that I honor him in our everyday activities even when it gets tough.

3. Take care of my body.
“What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?” 1 Corinthians 6:19

Yes, my body is not my own.  How would you treat your body if you thought of it as a temple with the Holy Spirit dwelling inside?  Throughout the business of the year, I’ve neglected my body.  My eating habits have been all over the place and I’ve worn myself  down until I was sick trying to do everything (currently catching a cold now, unfortunately).  I want to make a more conscious effort in deciding what I eat and drink, how I dress, how I take care of my hair and skin, and how I treat my body overall.  The Lord does not want us to be vain, but we are called to take care of the body we were given.  I’m going listen to my body and when I feel worn out or stressed, I will rest.

4. Be a good steward.  
“Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.” Galatians 6:7 

I will focus on being more productive with my time, money, things, and energy.  I will continue to work hard to excel at work and in all of my educational endeavors.   My mother always preached the importance of having good organization.  I’m going to start  by re-organizing as I move into my new home and ensuring I take advantage of my new planner and calendars upfront.

5. Give back.
“I have shewed you these things, how that so labouring ye ought to support the weak, and to remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how he said it, It is more blessed to give than to receive.” Acts 20: 35 

I want to give back more this year.  Over the last half of 2014, I focused on helping family members with medical issues.  Other than God, work and school, I didn’t focus on much else.  I’ve seen so much love poured out to me this year that I want to pour back into the lives of others.

In addition to being there for my family,  I want to focus on helping those outside of my family & friends again.  I’m going to start with the things I’m passionate about like become a special advocate for children in foster care,  volunteering at the hospital, and blogging.

I drew inspiration from these awesome links:
This article in O, The Oprah Magazine- 9 Rules for Making Habits That Stick
One of my favorite UK hair bloggers Love Your Tresses- Imperfectly Perfect: This Year I Will Achieve My Goals

Happy New Year!!!
via Pinterest


I will make posts this year for accountability  & share updates on my progress.  I hope this year is a good one for you!


Antonique

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Happy Thanksgiving & Merry Christmas!!

12.17.2014 by oul_admin // Leave a Comment

Just finished watching my favorite show The Voice & was rooting for Damien very avidly. Now I can’t help but praise God after seeing Craig Wayne Boyd win. Why? Because about two episodes ago he chose to sing a gospel song “Old Rugged Cross” and a few people started to discuss why it wasn’t a good idea. All I could think of during the conversation was exactly what Pharrell said after the performance “To God be the Glory”. This is also what I am thinking now after seeing Craig Wayne Boyde win this season of The Voice against the most phenomenally talented singers I’ve ever seen on the show.

I say all of this to say that in pursuing  your dreams there is always a moment where you feel entitled to being successful and you focus on  your gift more than you focus on your Savior Jesus Christ. The feeling of entitlement never comes when your working your butt off  & not seeing any benefits. It comes when you have people constantly telling you your doing well & going to be successful. In that latter moment it is so critical that you stay grounded in Christ  & realize you are where you are because of Him. Without Him you can only get so far but with Him (the One who not only created a world where your gift could thrive or in my case invented a sport with an event just for me to succeed in for His Glory but also created & meshed your gift with your personality in an environment that works best for you to do one thing that no one else in your generation can do like you) skies the limit. I think we all underestimate how unique we really are and the different ways God has to mold us into becoming all He wants us to be. We need to stop  underestimating & hiding  our uniqueness so that God can guide us into our own version of success.

So since Thanksgiving just passed & Christmas is coming please remember to always be more thankful for your Lord and Savior Jesus Christ than the gift He gave to you. Because who knows more to do with that gift than Him!💜

~Kassie Marqué~

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My Favorite Natural Products

12.05.2014 by oul_admin // Leave a Comment

I’ve been trying to be more natural in what I consume and also in the products I put on my skin and hair.  These are my current favorites that I always find myself restocking.  
From right to left.

Tazo Zen Green Tea.  The spearmint and lemongrass in this tea makes the flavor pop! I don’t even need to add tea or sugar.  The benefits of green tea are endless!

Purity Facial Cleanser. Very gentle and cleans my face very well.

Jane Carter Solution Nourish & Shine. This is my alternative to grease.  When I wear braids or a put my hair in a bun this is my go-to product.

Aubrey Organics Honeysuckle Rose Conditioner.  This product saved my hair when I lived in dry Colorado.  It is the best detangling product I’ve used and it leaves my hair soft and moisturized.

Yes to Cucumbers Facial Wipes.  Gently removes all dirt, oil, and makeup easily off my face and makes my skin feel so soft.

Ole Henriksen Three Little Wonders.  The only natural product I’ve found to address my hyper-pigmentation.  I only wish I didn’t have to add sunscreen to the regimen during the day.

Bite Beauty Mulberry Luminous Creme Lipstick.  The most moisturizing lipstick I’ve ever tried.  The ingredients in the product are even safe enough to eat.

The Body Shop SpaWisdom Polynesia Miracle Monoi Oil.  This is the best smelling product of the bunch and the coconut oil in this mixture does wonders for my hair.

I’d love to hear your favorite products below!

Antonique

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